There’s a phrase that I’ve heard a few times lately.
And I’ll be honest—at first, it stung.

“It’s too expensive.”

It’s a phrase that so often lives in the space between desire and belief.
Between longing and limitation.
And it’s one I’ve had to sit with… deeply.
Not just as a woman creating space for others, but as someone who has said those very words myself in moments when I didn’t yet feel worthy of receiving what I truly needed.

Because here’s what I’ve come to realise—“too expensive” is rarely about price.
It’s about perception.
It’s about the stories we carry around value, worthiness, and abundance.
It’s about whether we believe we’re allowed to invest in our healing, our growth, our becoming.

This Isn’t About Guilt. It’s About Ownership.

Let me say this first:
If you truly don’t have the resources for something right now, I honour that.
Life has seasons. Sometimes the timing isn’t right, and that’s okay.

But own that as your truth, rather than projecting it outward as if the offering itself is at fault.

Because saying “that’s not possible for me right now” is very different from saying
“that’s too expensive.”

One takes sacred responsibility.
The other places blame.
And when we blame, we bypass the real opportunity - the chance to ask ourselves why we feel that way.

“Too Expensive” is a Trigger - And Triggers Are Teachers.

When someone says this about something I offer, it lights up something old in me.
The little girl who worked so hard to prove her worth.
The woman who used to undercharge, overgive, and apologise for taking up space.
The part of me that still whispers, “Will they think I’m too much?”

But I catch it now.
I meet that voice with love.
Because I know what Sacred Sister offers is not cheap - but it’s not meant to be, and yet we will always find a way to meet you where you are, if you feel the calling to be with us, but with love, if there is a challenge here that shows itself up for healing, then that will likely come too.

We don’t offer surface-level fixes.
We offer depth. Belonging. Healing.
We offer a return to self, to nature, to sisterhood.
And that is sacred work.
That is valuable work.

This is About More Than Money - It’s About Belief.

When we tell ourselves we can’t afford things that call to our soul, we often keep ourselves small.
We reinforce the belief that we’re not ready, not worthy, not capable.
We sit in the echo of “maybe someday” instead of choosing ourselves now.

And sister—I’ve been there.
I’ve looked at things I longed for and told myself I couldn’t.
But when I finally said yes to me, everything changed.
Not because the money magically appeared (although sometimes it did)…
But because I aligned with abundance.
I believed I was worthy of more - and life met me there.

The Sacred Flip: From Scarcity to Sovereignty

So if this week you’ve found yourself whispering “I wish I could, but…”
I invite you to flip it.

Say instead:

“This calls to me. I’m not sure how yet, but I’m open to finding a way.”
“I’m choosing to believe I’m worthy of receiving what I need.”
“I trust that the resources will arrive as I align with my truth.”

This isn’t spiritual bypassing.
This is sacred accountability.
This is energetic alignment.
This is you choosing to live in the field of possibility, not the cage of old stories.

Let’s Talk About Sacred Responsibility

Inside the Sacred Sister Code, we talk about responsibility over blame.
It’s easy to say, “That’s too expensive.”
It’s harder - but far more powerful - to ask,

“Why am I scared to choose this?”
“What belief is standing in the way of me receiving?”
“What am I afraid might happen if I invest in myself?”

That’s the real work.
That’s the sacred work.
That’s the path of becoming.

And So, to the One Who Needs to Hear This...

You are not “too much.”
Your healing is not too expensive.
Your needs are not a luxury.

And your desires are not selfish.

They are sacred.

And you, sister, are worthy of every single thing your soul is whispering for.

Don’t deny yourself because of a number.
Don’t shrink because of someone else’s standard.

Instead, ask the deeper question.
And walk the truer path.

I’ll meet you there.
Always, with love—
Laura x

Too Expensive” or Too Sacred? — Triggers, Abundance & the Courage to Choose Yourself

This Isn’t About Guilt. It’s About Ownership.

Let me say this first: If you truly don’t have the resources for something right now, I honour that.Life has seasons. Sometimes the timing isn’t right, and that’s okay.

“Too Expensive” is a Trigger - And Triggers Are Teachers.

When someone says this about something I offer, it lights up something old in me.The little girl who worked so hard to prove her worth.The woman who used to undercharge, overgive, and apologise for taking up space.The part of me that still whispers, “Will they think I’m too much?”

This is About More Than Money - It’s About Belief.

When we tell ourselves we can’t afford things that call to our soul, we often keep ourselves small.We reinforce the belief that we’re not ready, not worthy, not capable.We sit in the echo of “maybe someday” instead of choosing ourselves now.

The Sacred Flip: From Scarcity to Sovereignty

So if this week you’ve found yourself whispering “I wish I could, but…”I invite you to flip it.

Let’s Talk About Sacred Responsibility

Inside the Sacred Sister Code, we talk about responsibility over blame.It’s easy to say, “That’s too expensive.”It’s harder - but far more powerful - to ask,